Galway Advertiser 1999/1999_06_17/GA_17061999_E1_030.pdf 

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UPFRONT
With Amy

... to swim with dolphins
A Musical Tribute to Jolene Briege Marlow, Eskra, OMAGH
~ 18th February, 1981 - 15th August, 1998 ~
ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER, YOUR PARENTS, YOUR CHILDREN? Share your worry - write in confidence to GALWAY.

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I think it's probably to do with TEE A TO TNS I RL WT T D , OE I H R W HG EL A O O N S R E I AY N money and the fact that my father drinks. I'm afraid of what is going to happen if this contines. T BOE A MR BLG AD TE OE I O EM C AIE OOS N H TR S N I I T H T S M W DL N TT WL B O W T OPIS H OD E I I H H A U Overhearing parents you're in bed at night is PRDE AAI" S. scary. Obviously your parents assume you all Athey reserve the rowsfighting when But parentsarecan beasleep and for this time. very JLN' ON WR GE TS N 1RC OEE W OS V H E 5 AK S D I I WT poor judges of how much children know and are aware of ABMPFRE B SNR & JNR C OS LU , EO D Y EO RM I UO H I , I R what's happening. They also underestimate the effect their argu SLSS AD MSAS O TE MS DP. O OO N U IN F H U ET F I T C I C I ing has on their children. You need to talk to them. Tell them LRO GMA SHO, O AHIS TL. TE OT R M COL MG, T I E H E A R T what you told me, that you have heard them when you are in bed and that you're scared of what might be happening. They C W ROE A TE SAEF ER C A ' D A E RD T H TT- T AT ' U N S CD OHwill, I hope, reassure you and it will put and end to die rows too, ROD SUO I SIDL C . GW A E RIG TDS N P A, O A A S CN I D LY hopefully. W A I S . MRS HL, O AH TGH E S N T AY AL MG. OEE L L ' TR W EN LEBR CRN MHN O T NSILN N AA UE F I H I -O I K LR Worried about body hair J LN' POUTN W M AE AD CO ' EE RDCOS H A G N OR O I , O ND / " V M y problem is so embarrassing that I can't talk to anyD T TE POC, AD W WM JLN N E H RJ T N T H OEE IAD E I O H Joae about it and it is ruining my life. I often wake up at WK UT 1H AGS, 1 9 , TE D O H OE N 5 UU 9 8 H A F E RD L T I T Y R night worrying about this. It's the amount of body hair I TG DT I O AH C . TRN, JLN' RC EH N MG, O YOE OEE AI A S have, particularly around my genitals. I know it's not nor PRNS BII & JE M LW S N SEA AET RE O AO , P T ERL , D R E V mal because I have looked at other lads in the shower and they have nowhere near the amount of hair I have. Mine is MT CMN TE 3-A E FLLU OH O PG H 2 G , UC O NS L II P LO R also very thick and kind of 'wiry' and this can't be normal. C- OL WI ACM N TE AU D KT H CO P E H LM B E C O H AIS B How can I getridof it? A WI FCSS O JLN' BE LE IS N H OU N OEE RF I , T D C H E S I F HHH AD TE TNS AD POE SE LV GL T N H HG N EP H OE I GS I I L D of all, not it body hair, in area elsewhere, just you describe, MS. R OD TK P C OR S EA O E RIG O L E V E RL T CN O A E V AFirst lotstheofgenitalonly isand perfectlytonormalasto have have. there are lads who would love have what you MN S CMEN I TE LE WE O OT, OMC N H A NR F H NG I T I T Now available as a CD and cassette Hairiness varies hugely, in girls and boys. It is very much relat 1 9 / 9 9 TE FS CAI T BNF FM 9 81 9 . H R HR O EE R IT T Y T O I ed V ON I II O O F O LC F I I C T LS E E R R S A POS W B TE K S V APAUA TRA, EH NNHE MRISS, H WM AD CMRG RNTNgenes andno it is dark, then at allmore obvious than is as is N RF L E H OOO PEMS L ERN A OE ES I PL E" E A N OF T ED to There is if need to worry it is - honest. Think of if it a Y T I I L BH NL NHP AS " Y GONH" E I S CAMN S ODGT T E E' A I blond. CMRB AD I EU MA R. OF TL N N QL ES E OAY A U FN. UD bonus. R I B SS LRTS TAINL MSIN, TOSLFL DDAIN O TS AU T JLN' STR OEO RD A UIAS O, KLU ECT N H LM O OEE I E, O T ' O I C I O I O U W A CPAD FM TE OTT B AR T AD SPRSD B A SILKE AD H CNBTN T A A BIU A E R AVT R H UE Y DEW N UEV Y TI V- N E OTI O O N MT S E TE O I S L IP E N IR K Y R RI U IO YI F I E EU CR RNTN B TE SNR CO ON PO SG PU DL, RCILPL NRE TN O TE A SIT NM Sex without the ties RL HA ED Y H EO YU CD RM AL AY EEE PL IT P TO F H L A S U F OL II O I HR AD I C AD ERA AEA I L N OG N I L NN & MCRNY WLO N SIN TE OOTN T CNBT MVEL"EE EE" I WI SE TM UI amT my forties and I am separated. While my mar EO N CATE' EK W EE H P R T O A TI E EOBN VR VR, N H H E S P W S LN in B N R C H A riageI H Z P UI R "EEDY A H L POSNL PRO TS UQE EY EC.O R YS RA" G Y RFS A EFR H NU XEINE U MIAY MCYA, EAE KL AD QH Ibreak-up was difficult and because of our chil T . IH EI O O I I SBA CRS L LN EY N band and remained friends, mostly painful, my ex-hus OHN T I L SA A R PR MC O TSA Y R OD "O D TL E AE F R E WO' HW O I I " N I A S H V MGL A HHGT EAE A S A WL regularly for family occasions like birthdays CA R GLHS LN N A H We,meet E E I I . I D Rdren. L I DD II RI U R S FL W LRA CL AD EAE KL NC UL CN BTN AD PFRACO DUT I TE ONN O AEN MYApart of my life is very stable. I am very happy with OO S ORIE O N LN EY IXE A OTI OS N EOMNE OB, N H PO F LE and thatG, L . N L I L EV L NAN II I ON H TT A IO OR I TE NRE TN O TE VY TAD OT SC A TT O ABENE O " SN F JLN"H E DL lots of ways. I have a good job, my own house, N H IT P TO F H E SEE U, UH S H F OH PS F A OG O OEE Amy 'life I R ERA I I R AND L CM R , V Ein V GNA CSIY CME AA EE MEHL W H ON CM SIEE' O TE OCSN TE CR wonderful friends and I am really enjoying life except for AN AS S OPX RNMT O NL, T E W O P TN D N H CA . HY AY AEN I D' L RG N C I I F H R OOR I O I R one thing. I feel embarassed even saying it and I have never I ES L ' TS NME, WIH W OE O JFETRT. GNA CSIY MU ADAD-AF M T PC W ES,admitted it to my friends, but I miss sex. I absolutely do not H U BR H A N F O OPI S AN AS S AR FU-NA L N E I E T AE AY I C S ' "LNSN " I OE D' TE N R -H IU E I O H B L F OT PCS O MS I TE DY LNCME AA EE O "O SP RD B AEN O BCN VCS AD relationship" which includes commitment. I don't A UE I E F U N H AIHADOPX RNMT F HW UOT Y LE N AK O L N A VR E I C I S Y L RG N H G D I OE P I IG Awant "a WK BO H DAH T I GE I A I F ES ER E ET. H VS T N NI E FE R S I HHABE CO S CM SG NM to live with anyone, I don't want to get married again. GCLR HR O PI I- I U R N AH I I want NL DE SNCNE AD VY SEA P C TY EP GFAC N E PCL L E I E I II R I A MMHN GNA CSIY SBA ferent men sincepartner". I havebut (a) they have been very C AO, AN AS , OHN I don't want "a my separation had relationships with dif I D I M RT AD CR MGICE. CR AO C YA N AA CL HY AA L C SL I N I S F TR O FT F TE SM TC poor CMor (b) they wanted moretalkingI was prepared to E UE N LE O H A E RK AloversA me wrong, I'm not than about one night A S U R A give. Don'tP CO get "...the Senior Choir ND B GA BAL O KBA stands,Gam talking about a sexual relationship with an I Y E R RDY N EOD SR IS E RD E Y R TN I accomplished no not into emo AD GNA CS Y O VL. CRS SL lover who has thisties and who isstrange and I N AN AI N OA I A O I S D I A' O thrill and inspire PNPR R AC O TE HUT " Hto emphasise I am not "cheap" or promiscuous. I want AO F MNE F H ANG tional, involvement. I know sounds very I - O E N want I A S E DNE" B M EL 6 SLEBAtheItrappings that go with a sexual relationship, ie dinner WT ACR Y C A ULAHN S E IH I all I throughout. OTADG US NN. T I and wine, etc, fun and frolics, whatever. Have other separat ed women this problem? TE JNR C OS PFRAC O H UO H I' EOMNE F I R R I TS MS L CLETN N H UA OLCI . I C I O "HTM O L E, TE LS TC BT OE O TEsimilar letters I get. lots of women arc in ten RY F I " H A RK U NJudging from H F T A NH TE TL TVRTY AD POSNL BI H AN ES L N RFS A R E , AII T EI O L ABM I EH RTG I I A CLBAINsame position as you. Many have given up hope of ever LU , S XL AI . T S EERT , AD IA N O A N sex without all the complications that go with LNE O TE SNR CO - RE FASS I AC F H EO HR EN NL N I I I CT I I T having ARPITY S . I SNL HP, OT S satisfying do say that most single men of your age POAL O T GAS OE PM P RE I II M commitment. Women U V CO O TE YR - TR AD ISIE T S HR F H E HL N NP ' I A L I R AD ETU S , AD A SC CNTT A content with what you are offering, thay want THE N NHS M N S UH OSUare not F A I TE I I S T TOHT WT HS T B V E A A A B HUO H A O E E D S N MI RGU A IW TG CNBTN T TE TL UQE OCSN This has probably something to do with their N OTI O O H RY NU RELATIONSHIP. I RI U U I CA , O I TU UDRAN. "E EDY " M OS NETKG YS RA" S E I I T , O MS L EET AD MS N TT " O Sfor security and exclusivity. As for their prowess in the UA V N LT E H T needW C N I IO A . E M I E H T EEIG, " OC LVD A L D, N AE VN " I NE OE C ND N A" W DLHS HS BOE F TO lovemakingD I'm afraid your experience is also common. T OPN A E M O HS W Hstakes I H I" C R E H A O Unfortunately, if their no "H VY TO H O YU AD DK TE E HU T F O" N UE R G TE PVEE O PRC TG I IS CETNin her rightthey haven't learned byon. I'mforties,I've H RLG F ATP N N T RAO. II II I A I woman mind should take them sorry TLGO' "AI DL" CV A VS EPN LI TN ST OL OR A X S N S N E T AE been no help to you on this one.

to swim

A M Y , C / O U P F R O N T , 2/3 C H U R C H L A N E ,

PLEASE NOTE: A M Y REGRETS SHE IS UNABLE TO ANSWER LETTERS PERSONALLY

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Clockwise

(from lop left) Gianna Elaine

Cassidy, Gerard Moynagh,

Bradley, Daly,

Lorraine

Coll

Kelly, Aileen

Paula

CLARA McGlinchey

and Jolene Briege Marlow

(centre)